Posted by llurpsienoodle on December 6, 2008, at 12:22:42
In reply to Re: Slow Down!LL/ » Sigismund, posted by rskontos on December 5, 2008, at 18:29:29
Hmm, you reflect that do it in order to keep others away. That is something that I hadn't considered before. I suppose being 'crazy' or whatever would set me apart from my peers, but I might also be doing it because it makes me more interesting and attractive.
oddly, the regret usually follows a U-shaped function. At the moment, I am mortified about what has just happened. Then I become less bothered by it by rationalizing and other mechanisms. Then I start to feel better about myself, and am once again embarrassed for my past behavior "how could I have *done* that???!)
-Ll
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