Posted by lucie lu on December 4, 2008, at 17:00:50
In reply to Re: One little sentence - long - trigger » lucie lu, posted by DAisym on December 4, 2008, at 12:38:45
Daisy,You raise thoughtful questions, as always. We can never leave it alone, can we, just leaving hurt as hurt; we need to know the hows, whys and wherefores. And what ifs.
When I try to superimpose myself on the situation as you describe it, here is what I would find myself wondering, as if I am viewing a theatrical production: my family just did what they did, we were all passive players in a set of acts, predetermined and now finished. But you - speaking to your T - you know how this play goes from start to finish. You have the power to rewrite the screenplay, so how would it go, your version? Sending me off to another therapist, another family, is that the best you could do? Why couldn't you rewrite it the way I would have liked best?
That's how my brain might run with it, but then again, I am seriously disturbed ;-)
Lucie
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