Posted by rskontos on December 2, 2008, at 11:15:53
In reply to Re: thanksgiving aftermath » rskontos, posted by turtle on November 30, 2008, at 11:50:26
Turtle,
You will get there. I never thought I would do this and I never thought it would help me. But it did. I am not sure where our relationships goes from here and it doesn't matter. I am feeling stronger within myself to choose how I proceed from here. Isn't that what it is all about. Not to let what happened dictate our choices but for us to dictate our direction.As adults it is up to us to decide what our relationships is with our parents as well as them. That I feel is hard to for us. Not to fall back into old worn out patterns.
Again, it is up to you to help yourself make it about you and not feel bad that is about you. Man that is hard but oh so liberating.
I believe you will get there.
rsk
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