Posted by Suedehead on October 29, 2008, at 18:44:38
In reply to Re: Ill-advised emails » Suedehead, posted by lucie lu on October 29, 2008, at 18:22:48
Thanks for your replies, everyone. I'm feeling a little better about having sent it. He hasn't responded, which makes me kind of nervous. However, Lucie's insight that I shouldn't have to worry about the effects of my material on his countertransference is spot-on, I think, and I'm doing my best to keep it in mind. So far, we've been working through the issues arising from our mutual attraction really, really well. He has been very warm and open about his feelings while remaining totally professional and making me feel safe with him. I'm looking forward to seeing him tomorrow morning--it should be a productive session. I'll let you all know how it goes.
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