Posted by Nadezda on October 3, 2008, at 10:58:13
In reply to Re: Do you know where your T....? » lucie lu, posted by JayMac on October 2, 2008, at 22:09:21
If you do feel a strong need to be near her, to see her or to go to her house between appointments, one approach could be to have her record something or give you a token of her presence, so you don't need to go through these experiences that evoke shame and guilt.
It's hard, when you need more contact than the hour provides and it may help to have other ways of keeping her present. While she may have boundaries about these things-- most Ts are willing to do something to provide that support.
For that reason if not for all the others, it's worth discussing the issue of your feelings between appointments and the difficulty you have maintaining the connection in her absence.
Nadezda
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