Posted by rskontos on April 18, 2008, at 12:33:58
In reply to Mad as a hornet one minute, posted by seldomseen on April 18, 2008, at 6:07:07
Seldom,
I would be grumpy too. You have every right to feel the way you do. A patient's needs can not always be at the right time, think scheduling or termination. So either he clears some space, which is what my therapist did, or he allows you to find someone that can find the time. Now I think that would be hard to bring someone up to speed but you have to think about what is best for you.
I, and I am no expert, as my own troubles will testify, believe you must have some help with this situation. You mentioned doing this alone. I dont think alone will be the easiest route. God knows I love to try and do things my own way and alone oftens appears best but in the long run I know I cant do that.
And while I think you probably mean you will come out of this, y ou want to come out intact and healing from it. That I think means you need an available therapist. I wonder sometimes if they really think when they think. I imagine he meant I am there for you.
And the unmitigated disaster in your head, I understand that completely. I accepted the term in my head, not as vocally as you did, and then I have ignored it for all intensive purposes. You are so much more ahead of the game for trying to tackle this head on. Now I hope your T plans to put some actions where his mouth is.
I hope the money talking thing works. I will be interested to see if that does the trick. When do you meet with him next?
And boy do I understand getting mad versus the real feelings of hurt, etc. Mad is so much better to deal with than the hurt. But try and let some of it out too. Here is the a singer preaching to the choir.
I guess we can all try to let our hurts out gradually. But you do need to share with him how he is hurting you too during this very raw time.
Here is too some peace all the way around, and here is too old wounds healing. ((((Seldom))))
rsk
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