Posted by rskontos on April 17, 2008, at 13:09:58
In reply to Re: Confused and Hurt (possible trigger)~LONG~ » LadyBug, posted by raisinb on April 17, 2008, at 12:33:04
Ladybug,
I agree with everyone else. I have only been with my T since late Dec. and I have been most disagreeable at times and he just sits there and smiles and says well in that case therapy would not be needed would it. He is so calm while I am anything but. So after 11 years I would expect some understand for an extremely difficult situation of extreme stress.
I think your T was unprofessional. To give you a limit at that time with only 10 minutes was the Cowardly Lion's way out. And to impose a limit or boundary that has worked effectively for so long without allowing you input is not only unfair but seems extreme in the face of such a long relationship.
So I agree that she might have issues of her own, but come on, those are her problems not yours. She has a job to do, and she must do it. I am afraid I would feel the same as you and I would have walked too. Maybe not the best course of action but I would have been stunned like you too.
She treated you unfairly and could very well set you back. Don't be so harsh on yourself. You may have made a mistake but she made bigger ones in my opinion.Take care sweetie. I don't know about termination, give that some thought when you feel calmer. And go easier on yourself. YOu deserve a break after all the hardships you have had to endure.
rsk
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