Posted by MissK on January 13, 2008, at 21:59:55
In reply to Re: Agonizing over T Relationships *trigger + ran » MissK, posted by seldomseen on January 13, 2008, at 20:02:40
Thanks for your message. I am glad some here have expressed having similar feelings and ideas that I have, even if they may have changed. Who knows, my ideas might change to in some respects.
>But now, looking back on it, I'm glad I had the guts to develop the attachment.
I like to think I have formed the right amount of attachment to achieve what I want to achieve, which is eventually no attachment in the sense of needing to see a T on a regular basis.
>I'm terminating right now and it's sad, but entirely okay I think because, like you said, this relationship was bound to end.
Wow. Just having attended therapy for near a year and half, I can imagine even if you know it is bound to end, it is not something to let go of easily because it provides a certain something even when you are feeling reasonably okay about things. I think I am maybe six months to a year off before considering termination. I hope I will feel like you seem to, entirely okay with that.
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