Posted by MissK on January 13, 2008, at 20:59:09
In reply to Re: Agonizing over T Relationships *trigger + ran, posted by Dinah on January 13, 2008, at 18:37:50
>First of all, I doubt any relationship can exist without rejections, slights, misunderstandings, being unavailable, etc. Therapy isn't teaching us to be in a relationship without those.
Actually, mine has taught me that with defined boundaries, explicit or implied, both in mind and in practice that a relationship can be had without those.
>Therapy helps us accept and value what is, and mourn what isn't.
I like what you say here. It rings true for myself too.
>It sounds like you're a fast learner! And that you're able to take in good things from others.
I do try. Thanks.
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