Posted by muffled on January 13, 2008, at 21:42:17
In reply to Re: Agonizing over T Relationships *trigger + ran » Dinah, posted by MissK on January 13, 2008, at 21:10:43
I think why you can't understand, is cuz you not been there.
I am happy for you.
I think for me there was stuff, due to my personality and upbringing and life situations, that I never learned. That most DO learn, but I never got. Basic simple stuff. Stuff people take for granted. I just don't understand. Its hard to learn stuff you should have learned as a young child, as an adult.
That desparate child in me , desprately wants to trust T, to have a safe person she can finally tell stuff to. A person who won't hurt her or reject her. Even though she knows she is disgusting.
So I am guessing you will never be able to fully understand how hard it is for some of us.
Its a long path of learning.
Of healing.
Best wishes.
M
poster:muffled
thread:806142
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20080101/msgs/806289.html