Re: t said the F word possible trigger ? » llurpsienoodle

Posted by fallsfall on December 13, 2007, at 20:44:49

In reply to t said the F word possible trigger ?, posted by llurpsienoodle on December 13, 2007, at 18:44:38

I feel like if I forgive someone then I absolve them of responsibility and then it becomes my fault. Like I become more tarnished via forgiving them.
There is no law of conservation of guilt. If you forgive someone their guilt doesn't have to go anywhere - your forgiveness makes the guilt disappear.
But I agree with Daisy. You don't have to forgive him. The important part is that you recognize that YOU did nothing wrong. I know that is so hard.

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t said the F word possible trigger ? llurpsienoodle 12/13/07
Re: t said the F word possible trigger ? » llurpsienoodle DAisym 12/13/07
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Re: t said the F word possible trigger ? » llurpsienoodle Dinah 12/13/07
Re: t said the F word possible trigger ? » Dinah lovelorn 12/13/07
Re: t said the F word possible trigger ? » llurpsienoodle fallsfall 12/13/07
Re: t said the F word possible trigger ? » fallsfall Dinah 12/13/07
Re: t said the F word possible trigger ? » Dinah lovelorn 12/13/07
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