Posted by B2chica on October 18, 2007, at 8:06:59
In reply to Trying to go easy, posted by rskontos on October 17, 2007, at 16:38:45
(((((((((((RK))))))))))))
that sounds like a really cr@ppy call.
i am amazed at the insight you have, to take each day as it comes, to NOT feel guilty and to just hang on.
wow, you make me want to feel strong.Nooooo, not sounding anywhere near dumb. Very well said.
all i can say is i HATE holidays! it seems i have a freak out every year around that time. it just brings on SOOOO much stress.
as for that 'father' person. he sounds very disillusioned (like most), that everything is great and everyone loves him. it ashame really that more people don't pull their head out of their *rs*. but i guess if its comfortable to live there...let them.
as for thanksgiving, i really try NOT to think too much about it. until i Absolutely have to ...like the week before.
It seems dear 'mother' volunteered me to host Thgvg this year...ok, i JUST had a baby...ya, i can clean and cook and host a family get together...hmmmm. then she made me feel like crap when i told her absolutely no (which i was even proud that i was able to do...hehe but i think i had just seen T day before and teen was near, cuz i was pretty fiesty) of course she used that tone, ohh, you won't.???..... well it was your turn and ....blah blah.... so i agreed to make the bird and take it to their house.
ok...sorry i hijacked a bit RK.
But, it seems around holidays even the biggest @ssholes want to believe they have a perfect family.
i just keep saying We WILL make it through, we WILL!But if they come over to your house, make sure you have some place in the house you can go to to be alone...get away for a moment or two. or maybe "run to the store" for something if you need to get away.
b2c
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