Posted by muffled on June 14, 2007, at 18:22:54
In reply to Please, I need help (about long-term T), posted by frida on June 14, 2007, at 13:48:39
So Frida you DID tell her bout the flashback?
Thats good if you did.
I just get so freaked out when my T goes certain places.
And then she just don't persue it. Mebbe it freaks her out too? I dunno.
I just know that its not so much that I am unwilling to open up to my T, I am UNABLE. I just can't get past my defense mechanisms. I don't know how.
So my T I suspect is frustrated too, and would proly like to be done w/me :-(
But I still beleive in her inasmuch as I don't think she would just dump me. Not if I said it was hurting me. She tries to make out that she tough, but she a softy I think.
So mebbe your T is the same in some ways?
I doubt your T will dump you. She just proly trying to define whats going on, so its clear in both your minds that T is doing some good in some way.
Take care, I think it will be just fine Frida. Try notto be scared.
Muffled
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