Posted by DAisym on June 4, 2007, at 20:25:42
In reply to Re: Daisy??, posted by TherapyGirl on June 4, 2007, at 17:30:00
The Universe is not helping me get ready for this visit.
The cat is really sick and the only time I could get into the vet interfered with therapy. And I didn't find out I needed to take the cat in until late in the afternoon so it was too late to find another time. And I had to pick the cat over me...he is a really important part of our family. So I left a message about 1/2 hour before my session saying I was sorry but...blah, blah, blah.
My therapist called at my session time and said, "you really can't come?" - no, sorry. He asked if we could spend some time on the phone together and since I had a 1/2 hour, we did that instead. But it was hard. Really hard. I wanted to see him and to feel safe in his office. I told him about the nightmares and we talked about my stress level. And we did some more planning. He likes what I've come up with so far but when he asked, "how will you say good-night?" the tears came. "No fair!" I declared, "you can't ask hard questions when I'm here and you are there." He said we need to make use of the time we have but he was sorry he upset me.
I told him he should have made a house-call. Then I would have had time for my session and the vet. He said, "but you are out in the garden, not in the house..." Yeah, yeah, yeah. Details....
I'm really, really tired. Please send good thoughts about the cat. I love him and I am very worried.
poster:DAisym
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