Posted by Rigby on May 2, 2007, at 17:13:25
In reply to Re: I've taken to taunting » Rigby, posted by crushedout on May 2, 2007, at 13:38:44
I don't know then. You've tried getting away from her. You've tried another therapist. Maybe this is the best course of action for a short period but I think Dinah's right--this woman will not validate you.
Another totally different approach on it would be to forgive her. To see her as messed up, human, good traits, some really bad ones, and just forgive her. Maybe that's how to resolve it and finally say goodbye. People forgive a lot of horrible, horrible stuff and it seems to release all the bad energy tied up. It's very hard to do but for me personally it was a lesson I had to eventually learn and it did help.
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