Posted by gazo on April 21, 2007, at 20:59:48
In reply to Pity Party - Thanks and a question -- All, posted by JoniS on April 20, 2007, at 22:17:08
the "rules" for me.. would be:
* of course the mind reading, especially as i literally cannot speak words when they have important feelings attached
*i want him to sit closer to me.. just at the perimeter of my personal space.
* i want him to call me because i can't call him... i am too scared. i want him to soothe me but i am afraid
* i'd like to end the sessions with a hug... mostly because touch is a problem for me and i'd like a safe place to learn to be ok with it
*i'd like him to push me harder on some things, like maybe checking in with him each day for now...just to be sure i am still alive, but to know when to ease off.
* i'd like him to tell me it would matter to him if i wasn't here anymore.. that he would notice the little hole left in the world where i used to be
* i'd like him to be outright if he truly understands the danger i am in.
* i'd like him to tell me that i matter when i am not in session with him... that maybe, just maybe he wonders how i am outside of session. i am not looking to have him think about me a lot.. but just a thought... like i matter.
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