Posted by annierose on March 3, 2007, at 11:52:20
In reply to Re: Anger and hurt, posted by Poet on February 28, 2007, at 20:58:48
Poet -
I wanted to thank you for your support. I like how you broke down all those cyber-slaps for me!
Yes, I did feel she was being avasive when she repeated "It's not about you," and not appreciating the pain I was feeling at the moment.
On Friday, she walked a fine line telling me it was okay to be angry and angry with her. She told me some story about a client that wanted to push her bookcase on top of her (something like that). Heck, all I was doing was quietly breathing. The confusing part to me (and still is) she felt it was not helpful to our relationship when I attacked her with my words - instead encouraged me to tell her how I was feeling --- therein lies the fine line.
But I do feel we are on the same page again and she took the time to think about some solutions for the future.
How are you doing? How is the job hunt going?
poster:annierose
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