Posted by cassie17 on November 16, 2006, at 10:44:26
In reply to Re: Well, I'm not rejecting you Kerria, » kerria, posted by Lindenblüte on November 11, 2006, at 0:06:32
Hi Kerria,
The thing is that while you may not consider responses on the forum as talking to "you" but a part of you, people on a forum only know "kerria" so that's who they are talking to. So if Kerria writes one thing, and the rest of you think something different, the people reading your post only know what Kerria says and thinks.
Does that make sense? I think that's where a lot of the confusion may have come from, because some people may have felt that the rest of you wasn't taking responsibility for what Kerria said. And if a post had 5 positive suggestions and 2 negative comments, maybe YOU were taking in everything, but if Kerria only responded to the 2 negative comments, it felt like the positives were being ignored. And after a while, I think some people felt frustrated because they felt their positive comments weren't being heard? Because they weren't being acknowledged.
I'm glad you are starting with a new t, a business approach might be very helpful for you (and so different from the last T which could have been a lot of blurred boundaries)
Meg
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