Posted by Poet on October 4, 2006, at 13:06:00
In reply to I ran into Anne hahahah, posted by wishingstar on October 4, 2006, at 11:56:49
Hi Wishingstar,
My T has never said *I'll think about it," but enough job interviewers, ex boyfriends and ex employers have said it to me that I believe it actually means *no chance.* I think the person saying it believes it's less painful than an outright no, but to me it's not. At least an outright no takes away all hope. It doesn't leave you clinging onto to a tiny thread of hope.
I think Clueless #2 Anne is being unfair to you. If I were you I would call her and tell her that you don't want to see her right now; you have to *think about it.*
Poet
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