Posted by wishingstar on July 12, 2006, at 16:35:18
In reply to Re: am I expecting too much? » wishingstar, posted by Dinah on July 12, 2006, at 7:33:14
Yes, you're right.. it isnt the first time. When I finally do get her on the phone, we never talk for more than 5-10 min, so I've never thought to offer to pay.. I dont get the feeling that money is the issue.. but who knows. Maybe it is. I'll keep that in mind.
I think maybe I need to be more clear about how much it hurts when she doesnt call. I guess I just assumed that would be very clear to her, given that my biggest issues are rejection and abandonment, but you're right.. it may not be. We have discussed that some, but I guess it needs to come up again. However, right now I'm hung up on the idea that maybe this is my problem and my behavior causing her to not want to talk to me (see the thread below).. I need to get over that first.
Thanks for your thoughts. Youre right.. if she isnt going to do it, she just isnt.
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