Posted by ElaineM on July 11, 2006, at 21:02:01
In reply to am I expecting too much?, posted by wishingstar on July 11, 2006, at 19:40:21
Hi Wishingstar: I think everyone feels like their own stuff is stupid. I do. But I always find everyone else so interesting. Plus, I don't think that anything that upsets you so much could be considered small, no matter what it is.
I used to think that 24 hours was reasonable. But then recently my T didn't return my call for over a day. I started driving myself crazy with what that meant. I sometimes forget that T's are regular people too, and that something could've been going on. Has she said anything to you before about returning calls? If she's told you a time line before, (and there's no personal emergency on her end this time) then I would think that you deserve your call returned. (to be fair, I'm not familiar with you and your T's history of calls) Have you guys been working on seeing what it would be like for you if she didn't return your calls within the usual amount of time? I don't know. Is there any other reasons why she may not have reached you yet? Does she ever take two days off in a row, during the summer? Could she have not got your message yet... or just got it this afternoon?
Sorry, I'm rambling here. Just trying to think it out
EL : )
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