Posted by susan47 on June 2, 2006, at 0:54:34
In reply to Re: Please be honest, should I leave my T ? » milly, posted by happyflower on June 1, 2006, at 19:19:11
It's like my story all over again, I can't believe the way you talk about what happened in therapy, it's like we have exactly the same story except I was haywire with the phone, I think it was titillating for me and i liked that I had his attention, I felt like I had his attention I fell in love with that. I think I just needed that to happen, I guess I shouldn't have been so scared, maybe I should've trusted him more and maybe he should've shown more trust in me and kept me and made deals with me or something, I would have definitely gone for approval, anything for his approval but he could not show me that and it was a killer, it killed me that I'd never have it. He'd always sit there with a worried frown or amazed face or something, it was so scary when I realized he wasn't rock solid, no maybe he wasn't and .. whatever. It isn't my story this time, it's yours.
HF don't leave again. Just keep him, I think that would be what you should do, I mean .. you've worked so hard, and maybe give him a bit of trust and I think you realize he really does care, and there is another side to this that you just haven't seen yet.
When you do see it, I hope it amazes you.
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