Posted by frida on April 1, 2006, at 0:32:22
In reply to Of course (possible trigger), posted by Dinah on March 31, 2006, at 20:33:34
Dear Dinah,
I don't think it would be a threat, it would be truth, it would be telling your husband how you are truly feeling inside...
We do have some power over the things that happen, even if in the past we didn't --
In a marriage things should be shared, decisions taken together...I wish you could tell him how you're truly feeling about this.
I am so sorry you're hurting so much.
Your T has to help you through this, I hope you can lean on him..I hope he can make you feel safe somehow.
Thinking of you
Frida> I haven't mentioned that I'm trying to decide if this is worth killing myself over. I joke about it sometimes. I ask if xxx is a fate worse than death. Which is, I guess, my way of saying that I'm struggling with suicidal ideation. Or not struggling with it, depending on where I am at the moment.
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> Because some of the time, it's not really an issue, and other times it is. And I don't want to distress him. And I hate fights.
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> I've told him (and my son has told him) that we want to stay here. I don't want to need to tell him more than that. Shouldn't that be enough?
poster:frida
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