Posted by milly on March 22, 2006, at 7:51:34
In reply to Re: Well, I go to my T in the morning., posted by madeline on March 21, 2006, at 19:49:50
> I hear you milly. Do you live in the UK? I think they only give you guys six months or so with a therapist. Is that right?
** Yep, thats the deal and he has already stretched it to 7 months
> That sooooo bad, I didn't really even start talking at all to my T until three YEARS into therapy, and I still obviously have problems with THAT.
** I had big trust issues so it has felt like no time at all to build this relationship and I have told him that it's wrong to put such a short time limit on it. He hasn't said it in as many words but I know he feels the same, it must be quite frustrating for him to think he is glimpsing growth but isn't allowed to take it forward.
> Maybe in your last visits you could express the way you feel and perhaps find some way to internalize all of the validation you got at today's visit.
** It certainly focuses the mind knowing my time is slipping away
> I'll be thinking of you. I see my T again tomorrow. I wonder what we will talk about?
** hope it's gone well today
milly
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