Posted by B2chica on March 8, 2006, at 10:39:10
In reply to When there's no place to focus upset, posted by Racer on March 7, 2006, at 13:20:37
little late but had to chime in:
>>"I'm angry with my mother for failing me." It turns back on myself, as a sort of "I must be a really terrible person, to want to be angry with my poor mother, since she did the best she could with the resources available to her."
that is EXACTLY how i feel about my mother!! i start trying to get mad and i turn it around too! i thought i was the only one that did such stuff.
i like clearskies sequence, i echo that.part of it too is that i was basically raised to be submissive, and in doing so i put blame on myself not others. my 'mother's' words echo...'shame on you', you asked for it, god will get you for that, why did you let him do that....etc.
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