Posted by fairywings on February 15, 2006, at 15:50:19
In reply to on knowing 'too much' about your T, posted by asmita on February 15, 2006, at 6:11:42
Having any kind of feelings can be scary, and really scary to bring up, BUT if he brought up transference maybe he will again, and you can go there. It doesn't always mean "love" like sexual attraction. It can be a parental thing, a brotherly thing, mine kind of feels like an uncle or big brother kind of thing - but a NICE bb, not like the ones I had. Writing it out always works for me, since I can't get it out otherwise.
Curiosity has to be natural, mine fortunately shares quite a bit, so I'm not really too curious about his life.
Good luck,
fw
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