Posted by bent on February 15, 2006, at 7:25:14
In reply to on knowing 'too much' about your T, posted by asmita on February 15, 2006, at 6:11:42
I agree with what madeline said. You will probably find that most posters here have googled their T. Its only normal to be curiosious and that curiosity is heightened because the relationship with a T is so one-sided. I do think that what we find in our searches can be hard to deal with though and sometimes makes that curiosity stronger...and I cant imagine talking to my T about searching her on the internet. I sometimes wish I could tell my T the things that I know about her. I worry that it would be too weird or she'd freak out. My T lives in the same neighborhood as one of my family members. I hate it but I am so afraid to tell her. Sometimes I wish I didnt know.
I hope you can tell your T about your feelings towards him. Its very hard but if you have a good T it can be very helpful in getting through the hard feelings. I have a hard time talking about these feeling and I usually end up reading a letter or journal entry to my T when I need to talk about it. Would you find that helpful? How long have you been seeing this T?
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