Posted by Dia on February 15, 2006, at 13:09:53
In reply to on knowing 'too much' about your T, posted by asmita on February 15, 2006, at 6:11:42
asmita,
i read your post awhile back about your feelings towards you T and it was almost scary to read it because it was as if i had written that post myself! i really am in the same situation...older male T, attracted to him but sometimes try to see him as a father-figure, he comments on the way i look and says really nice things to me, i go back and forth between him thinking i am the most unattractive patient he's ever had and is annoyed by me - to thinking he is attracted to me and feeling so much 'tension' in the room between us, etc.
as for the finding out info on your T - don't feel bad...i went to the extreme of even finding out my T's password and being able to read his mail! i have found out all kinds of things about him, and now i feel so guilty. i can't believe i just admitted that. i really do think i am obsessed, but i don't think he has any idea, because like you - i have so much trouble bringing up the subject of my feelings for him as well.
anyway just wanted to let you know that you are not alone in this!!
- Dia
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