Posted by fallsfall on January 26, 2006, at 12:11:18
In reply to Re: I still miss her » fallsfall, posted by crushedout on January 26, 2006, at 11:45:07
I would have an official session with her. And I don't hope for any residual relationship. So that is a difference between me and you. Why didn't I have the session? Because I'm afraid it will just make things worse again. I am at a point where I am moving on, I guess I don't think that it would help me do that. What would I say in such a meeting? I would want to tell her why what she was doing was wrong for me. I want to say that I would tell her this so that she could learn and help other people more. I'm not angry at her - I just think that her methods weren't helpful for me. I guess she should have referred me on earlier. I think I know why she didn't (because she was afraid of my reaction). I can live with things the way they are. I'm afraid that if I spent a session with her that everything would be stirred up again. I just don't think it would be helpful.
I guess I figure that I've come to an understanding that I can live with from my side. I expect that she has, too - from her side. If she wants to know how I'm doing, she could ask my pdoc (whose office is across the hall).
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