Posted by crushedout on January 26, 2006, at 11:45:07
In reply to Re: I still miss her » crushedout, posted by fallsfall on January 24, 2006, at 7:31:21
Thanks, falls (and everyone else too) for your post.
I guess I just wonder if I need to meet with her to get some closure.
Why didn't you ever have that meeting with your old T, falls? Do you think it would not have helped?
I'm thinking of a couple of hours over coffee, just to explain to her why I left (she still doesn't know) and hear her side of things, too, like you said.
And yes, of course, I hope that that could turn into something "nontherapeutic"--a friendship or relationship or whatever, and i guess that's why I haven't done it. Because I'm afraid that if that outcome does not result, I may be crushed (like my name suggests).
But but but there is a part that just wants closure.
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