Posted by littleone on January 16, 2006, at 14:48:37
In reply to She did BUMP me!!!, posted by annierose on January 16, 2006, at 10:46:30
I know just how you feel and it really does suck big time.
My T and I had a big blowup over something very similar. In the end he was trying to show me that it only upsets me because I have my worth tied up into it.
I feel like I don't matter. In your case, you felt like you were disposable.
He said that other clients who don't have ego/self problems don't have issues with times, etc. Which just made it feel like he was saying it was my fault. But I guess he was trying to say that most people don't have their worth tied up into things like this.
And I can see that it was/is upsetting for me because my worth *is* tied up into it. But I still reckon he did stuff wrong.
We've never resolved this stuff. Fighting with him is so distressing. It's times like this I put my running shoes on and get ready to bolt.
I sure hope you and your T sort things out. You're doing well so far talking to her about it. I'd love to keep hearing how you go.
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