Posted by fairywings on January 16, 2006, at 14:33:07
In reply to She did BUMP me!!!, posted by annierose on January 16, 2006, at 10:46:30
(((Annie)))
That does s*ck, and you're right, she didn't own up to her blunder. I don't blame you for being angry and wanting to quit. I know you've been with her a long time, so I guess it's a matter of whether you can work through it with her and forgive her, or whether you even want to. My last T tried to slough off his mistakes too. I hated that bec. it made me feel bad about me when it was clearly his fault.
I can't believe she tried to make it into something about your past, or that she kind of implied that clients who come more often rate higher. I hope she thinks about it and realizes she messed up big time. It really hurts when they do things like that to us, and why can't they see how hurtful it is? How damaging it is to break our trust and basically lie to us, or at the very least not be honest?
I'm glad you had the guts to talk about it and be completely honest. You were incredibly brave to fight for your self and defend your position. I can't imagine she'd go away from that kind of honesty and not give it some serious thought. Just simply saying, "I'm sorry" doesn't cut it.
I know you're really hurting right now, and I'm so sorry.
fw
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