Posted by orchid on December 12, 2005, at 20:49:18
In reply to More sh*t, more abuse triggers, posted by happyflower on December 11, 2005, at 16:24:08
Actually being a nice person only means that they are nice most of the times. They can be real *ssholes too.
I am also considered generally to be one of the nicest girls around. I was even give "Miss Nice Girl" in my college (they had all sorts of crazy awards :-)). But I really was an *sshole in the first year of my marriage towards my husband. Simply because I didn't know better at that time, and because I was under lot of emotional pressure myself too.
But I think one of the charactersistics of a real nice person, would be that they are willing to learn and accept their mistakes and change if pointed out in a right way.
As far as your husband is concerned, I really think you should give him more time. He might turn around.
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