Posted by happyflower on December 11, 2005, at 16:24:08
My T said last week most people think he is a nice guy, I cringe when he says that.
My mom worked in the school as a teachers aid in my brothers special ed class. Well all I ever heard from teachers and kids was how nice my mom was.
I married what I thought was the nicest person who everyone likes, who has a lot of compassion and caring for people. Well now another "nice" person has hurt me badly. And I always thought he was nicer and more compasionate than me and I thought he would never hurt me. I was wrong.
How can I ever trust "nice " people. I hate my T says people thinks he is nice. But he admitted to me also that he has been an *sshole too, so that makes me feel better.
Another topic for discussion in therapy, should I tell my T I hate it when he says people thinks he is a nice guy?
I think my T sex trigger posts are much more fun than these last two. Don't ya think?
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