Posted by Poet on December 10, 2005, at 17:51:30
In reply to Will my words diminish dreams ,spirits of another?, posted by allisonross on December 10, 2005, at 7:59:22
Hi Ally,
If everybody who posted had the same opinions, values and thoughts babble would not be interesting or supportive to me.
I go out of my way in posts to be civil because I constantly worry about doing everything wrong. I'm supportive when I can be, I don't get into posts where I can't be.
I put trigger on posts about childhood abuse because those memories hurt me even when I write about it in vague terms 30 plus years later. I don't think we could put trigger on everything that might trigger a negative reaction in someone else or every post would have to have it. Don't beat yourself up because your posts about your T didn't say trigger.
You seem to have come so far with working through all of the abuse you've suffered. That makes you a good person to have on babble to help those of us trying hard to get through it.
Your therapist and you have a different relationship than mine and I do, but that doesn't make either one right or wrong. I worry that you'll get hurt by your T, but much of that comes from me being unable to accept that anybody would like me and care about me. This includes my T and my husband. I'm cynical and think what does this person really want. Yeah, I know work on that in therapy, but what does T really want? To get paid, I owe for two months, but anyway..
You can't leave babble. You're still taking care of four year old inner me and I might want her back someday.
Poet
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