Posted by daisym on December 4, 2005, at 20:05:08
In reply to Re:Dasiy, I want to clear up something I wrote ..., posted by annierose on December 4, 2005, at 16:04:12
Annie -- I was not/am not offended. Somehow I missed your post or else read it in the fog of Friday, not my best day. I think we are similiar in lots of way, especially in our need to figure out the truth of our families.
What did your therapist say about the board? I'm finding the more I've shared about Babble, the more he brings it into discussion. Like, "are you getting a hard time on the board for that?" or some other such thing.
I had one of those smile moments during our phone call on Friday. I was having such a black day and I sort of wailed at him that I just didn't want to do this anymore -- it was too painful.
I said, "in your experience, how much more time is this going to take? I've been at it 21/2 years and it still hurts so much. If it is 10 more years I don't want to keep going. Please don't just tell me that everyone is different."Him: "I just don't know -- I wish I did."
Me: "Lie to me!"
Him: "2.7 years. Feel better?"
Me: "OK, I'm holding you to that. I'm considering this a verbal contract."
Him: "Well then at least you know I'm not going anywhere for that amount of time."
What could I do? I had to laugh. Then I told him to stop being reasonable and rational.
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