Posted by Tamar on December 4, 2005, at 18:18:46
In reply to What gg said, and I'm thinking....., posted by 10derHeart on December 4, 2005, at 15:51:06
> ....maybe the gym thing, and even specifically the recent "wink," could be good ways to get the topic going, if/when you decide to talk about it.
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> Like you could ask him, "Is it weird to see clients outside the office, like at the gym? I'll tell you what it feels like for me, if you tell me what's it's like for you...."
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> ...or something better....more in the happyflower style of speaking...;-)
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> Perhaps that'll lead right into a good chance to say something like, "Because I've been wondering about when you winked at me the other day - you never do that here {does he?} - but there you did, and I don't really get what it meant...."
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> just some ideas.....not that you asked for any :-)Those sound like really good ways to start the discussion! Yay 10der!
Happyflower, I agree that the only way you can know what's going on inside his head is to ask. I'd say that whether he was your therapist or your colleague or your best friend's brother's wife's uncle.
I think the wink could be a good way into the discussion. If someone I was attracted to winked at me, I’d definitely find a way to mention it!
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