Posted by happyflower on December 5, 2005, at 11:06:18
In reply to Re: therapist outside of office setting, posted by Miss Honeychurch on December 5, 2005, at 9:38:46
> Hi Happy Flower,
>
> Just curious. You mentioned the same thing happened with your allergist. Has this also happened with other doctors? Or other people in general? As far as the flirting, etc.Nope, before therapy, I was mostly didn't notice if someone was flirting with me. I was less open. My allergist has always flirted gently (like my T does now) but when my allergist saw me outside the office, he really turned up the heat, even in front of my DH. I was a little uncomfortable with it because I thought he was going too far. My T hasn't done anything I am uncomfortable with, but then again I am attracted to him, but not to my allergist, even though he is good looking.
I do admit since therapy, I am more open to everyone that I encounter. And yes I do flirt back too but I am friendly to men and women. But I don't "start" the flirting.I think my T even got a little jeolous of me talking to this other guy at the gym because my T was trying to get my attention because there was this band we both like playing on the radio and he couldn't get my attention because I was talking to this other guy.
I helped my T get a CD of this group that was very hard to get in the US. My T told me in the next session that he thought it was quite a coincedence that that song was playing while we were both their at the gym.
I think both of these guys "started" flirting with me first, and I flirt back a little. Seems harmless to me, it is fun, it feels great for my ego. I even told my T I am enjoying men noticing me, especailly since my DH is rejecting me making me feel like an ugly slug.
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