Posted by gardenergirl on December 4, 2005, at 12:55:21
In reply to Re: The reason I am asking is because...., posted by happyflower on December 4, 2005, at 11:45:25
I think that as hard as it might be, the only way you can really know the answers to your questions is to ask him. We can all speculate based on your descriptions. You clearly have the most experience and "data" about the issue than any of us do. But only he can tell you what's really going on inside his head.
That said, I do think his behavior certainly would lead me to have similar questions. And I'm certainly just as likely to try to analyze something to "know" the answer before I ask the question.
But as Daisy said, braving asking him will free up so much more emotional and cognitive energy for you to use to your own benefit--whatever his answer is.
gg
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