Posted by orchid on November 14, 2005, at 6:35:49
In reply to ((((((orchid))))), posted by gardenergirl on November 13, 2005, at 22:26:06
I told him to not touch me like this. I said it isn't good for me. I told him he can hold my hands etc, but not touch me otherwise.
He seemed ok with it, and tried to even joke about it. And it has been quite normal. Which makes me wonder again why I didn't have the courage to say it 15 years back? But perhaps he should have understood my silent pullbacks or maybe not even initiated it in the beginning.
And I still think he is innocent.
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