Posted by happyflower on October 27, 2005, at 14:04:47
In reply to Re:Caraher:hugs in general (ramble alert!), posted by allisonross on October 27, 2005, at 12:20:21
I grew up in a hugless nonemotional except hate and abuse. The only person who would hug me was my grandma from my dad's side. It felt so weird, and I didn't look forward to it at all.
But I have changed in to a huggy type of person. I guess my DH changed this in me, because I hug almost anyone I am close to or relatives. My kids are huged and told they are loved everyday. They will never fell hugs are weird or hearing they are loved, sounding foreign to them . I just wished I could be hugged now, I only get them from my kids, which is better than nothing. I would hug my T if he allowed it. It would feel good, and I told him it would. But no luck in that ever happening.
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