Posted by lostforwards on October 2, 2005, at 13:49:54
In reply to Re: abusers -trigger, posted by daisym on October 1, 2005, at 19:37:45
> The other interesting dynamic is how abusers were often abused themselves -- so why wouldn't they know better? I remain on high alert around my own anger so that I never turn into that.
Even if they know better, I think certain behaviours might be very reactionary and seem out of their control and appear only when they're under stress.
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