Posted by rainbowbrite on October 1, 2005, at 18:18:54
In reply to abusers, posted by lostforwards on October 1, 2005, at 11:42:41
It depends...
Some people are evil and have one goal in mind and that is too torture or inflict pain on another person. They get full enjoyment out of watching another suffer. But then there are the people who lose control, Im not making excuses for them but in those cases the person truely does regret and tries to rationalize what has happened. In short, I think more often an abuser is so f*cked up themselves that they don't realize the impact they are having on the abused.
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