Posted by fairywings on October 1, 2005, at 23:37:58
In reply to Re: abusers » lostforwards, posted by rainbowbrite on October 1, 2005, at 18:18:54
> It depends...
> Some people are evil and have one goal in mind and that is too torture or inflict pain on another person. They get full enjoyment out of watching another suffer.My dad was like this, and my current T said that he was sadistic. I think he knew what he was doing because he was so good to my sister and seemed to get some sort of sick "enjoyment" out of abusing me. On the other hand, I was abused by two others who learned from example. I don't think they ever knew, one should have, the other I don't think ever knew any better. One died never suffering from it, the other is living in their own tormented hell from the abuse they suffered themselves. It's all so terribly twisted and sad. I thank God I can get therapy and that I have found a good therapist.
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