Posted by 10derHeart on September 11, 2005, at 12:51:39
In reply to Re: Talking about sex (again!) » Annierose, posted by luvdove on September 11, 2005, at 3:36:02
Hi luvdove,
So glad you posted this link! I meant to ages ago, but I forgot (darn brain!)
I think this guy's writing is right on target and very helpful. I printed out all he wrote on this subject last year when I was having to say goodbye to my former T. who moved away. I found it really helped me a lot with those transference/not-tranference questions you might ask yourself, and to understand why the relationship was so intense and meant so much to me, etc.
It's written in such a warm and positive way, and really paints an awesome picture of the therapy relationship, IMO. I think it's very affirming to anyone struggling - especially if there are guilty, confused or even shameful feelings about experiencing love for a T.
poster:10derHeart
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URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20050901/msgs/553762.html