Posted by fairywings on September 10, 2005, at 19:33:16
In reply to Re: Talking about sex (again!) » fairywings, posted by daisym on September 10, 2005, at 16:02:33
> I strongly suspect that the physical aspects have nothing to do with attraction in therapy,
Yeah, I guess you're right because i think when i'm attracted, it's the manner of the person, not the physical. see, there u go again daisy, i didn't think of that b4 u said it. why can't i think of these things? i think if i could i'd be a lot better at all of this.
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> As far as pushing through...be careful. I wanted to do this so badly that I flooded myself emotionally. I told my therapist that I would take a week off and just "work" out all the memories and feelings and tears and be done with it.I don't understand, i have been so consumed by what's going on. maybe a new thread for this? i will post, i need advice. so confusing to me, i didn't realize this could happen.
>I damn near ended up in a padded room incoherent and I was so suicidal it was scary. So DON'T do that.
i'm SO sorry that happened to you daisy, it is overwhelming to see how this can happen. i'm so glad you had your T to help you through it. how far into therapy were you when it happened?
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> The other thing my therapist likes to say is, "the psyche has its own timeline." You don't just get to choose when this stuff pushes its way into your life. You can choose to ignore it, or act out in a different way,this is fascinating to me, u have an awsome T, so full of wisdom. i guess that's why things are so on my mind now, and why i can't shake it. i wish i weren't inflicting it all on my family though. i feel so sorry for them.
> I'm liking your new therapist more and more.i like him too, and i think he can really help me.
thanks daisy, you're always so kind.
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