Posted by All Done on September 10, 2005, at 2:16:46
In reply to Talking about sex (again!), posted by daisym on September 9, 2005, at 0:27:52
> then I said, "What if you are the only one I ever think I could ever be safe with?" He said "it's a start. And it's OK."
I'm surprised at how this struck a chord with me, Daisy. I guess I've kind of addressed the issue with my T when I told him I don't understand how some of my feelings toward him are helpful. Can I really learn how to feel safe with someone else (namely my husband)? I don't understand how the process works and I feel like I'll always be "stuck" just having feelings toward my T.
I'm glad your T told you it was a start. Let me know if he tells you how it's going to end up, k? ;)
BTW, thank you for posting. Sometimes I feel like we're addressing a lot of the same topics in therapy. When you post, you put a lot of my feelings (and parts of my sessions) into words in a way I can't seem to do.
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