Posted by Annierose on September 5, 2005, at 8:36:01
In reply to Re: Sorting stuff out » happyflower, posted by daisym on September 4, 2005, at 22:23:00
Daisy -
A thought just occured to me. As important as it is to talk to your T about the feelings you have about him, and I do think that is so hard to discuss and critical to therapy ...
But have you spoken to your T about the contrast in your own marriage? Your reply to Tamar was so honest re: your marriage. I can't seem to put into words what I'm trying to say (looking at a blank screen for 10 minutes ... maybe it's too early).
There's such a strong contrast, and I think there's solid therapy material in that ... expectations, longing, the "perfect" husband in your T, your husband's medical condition, etc.
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