Posted by Annierose on September 2, 2005, at 14:08:29
In reply to Sorting stuff out, posted by daisym on September 1, 2005, at 22:39:27
Daisy -
I truly believe that your T never has had a moment that he'd wish he wasn't your therapist. He cares so much about you and wants to be there for you.
Yes, you are not only doing such hard work, but it's so important. And it's a drain on our brains!! (Gives me headaches sometimes) I think babble not only provides support, but insight. Knowing that you are not alone in your struggle. And for me, learning from you, how to be honest with our T's about EVERYTHING! Especially the feelings that involve them. I usually have my hands covering my face; it's so darn embarassing!! Through your courageous journey, you have helped many.
If you left your phone on, you would have heard your T's gentle voice, telling you that you are okay. That he understands why you feel jealous. That he accepts you 100% as you are. And he will come back from vacation, excited to see you and work on these feelings again and again and again until you are okay. To quote my T "it's a slow but rewarding process".
I'll be thinking about you. I remember that you are also taking your son to college during your T's vacation, how dare they overlap. We'll be here for you, as you have been there for me and other babblers in their struggles.
poster:Annierose
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