Posted by gardenergirl on August 25, 2005, at 5:43:06
In reply to Re: If it were next session, posted by Dinah on August 24, 2005, at 20:47:34
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> I loved them, and they made me feel good.
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> > > It doesn't mean he doesn't care about me, but it does mean that he doesn't care about what I care about,
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> > But does he care about what is best for you???
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> He cares about what he thinks is best for me. It makes me want to do terrible things to show him that it's what I think that's important.
>Dinah, reading this reminds me of how good parents care about their children enough to sometimes set boundaries that the child doesn't like. But it doesn't mean they don't care about what the child cares about. They just make a decision based on different/better judgement at the time.
Is this something you can talk more about with him?
gg
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